Nine lives lost in one year. In Brunei, that averaged one suicide every six weeks. Behind the figures are families left grieving. Beyond the hotline numbers and awareness campaigns, what happens after someone seeks help? Who follows through? And are we asking enough of those entrusted with protecting vulnerable lives?
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The Silent Crisis We Cannot Afford to Ignore
Nine lives were lost to suicide in Brunei in 2025. The public deserves to know what happens after a person first reaches out for help.
By Malai Hassan Othman
The news shook me. A young Bruneian man had reportedly died by suicide. It reached me through a close friend in Belait and left an uncomfortable question.
How much suffering remains unseen among people we greet every day?
I did not know him personally, and the circumstances have not been independently verified. His family deserves privacy. Yet the concern reaches well beyond one grieving household.
I grew up at a time when suicide was seldom spoken of in the community around me. Silence offered little reassurance then. It offers little now.
On 10 October, the Ministry of Health reported five suicide deaths in 2024 and nine in 2025.
In 2025, somewhere in Brunei, a life was lost to suicide on average every six weeks. Behind each death was suffering the annual figures cannot reveal.
Two years of figures do not establish a long-term trend. But nine lives lost in a single year should trouble the conscience of a country as closely connected as ours.
Do these losses hold our attention beyond the day the figures appear in the news?
The Ministry’s World Mental Health Day message also recorded approximately 17,014 patients receiving psychiatric or psychological treatment in 2025. Talian Harapan 145 received 2,515 calls that year.
A large proportion of callers were aged 18 to 35. The call total does not tell us how many different people called, or how many faced suicidal crisis.
People are reaching out. What these figures cannot show is the help they receive, particularly after that first call.
After the call
The hotline and the professionals providing mental-health care deserve recognition. Their work places them close to distress that most of us encounter only occasionally, if at all.
Yet the number of calls answered leaves an important question open: what happens next?
An answered call records contact. It does not, by itself, tell the public whether an urgent assessment followed, treatment began, or support continued afterwards.
Who remains responsible when a person needs further care? That answer should be clear within the service and understandable to the family trying to obtain help.
We do not know whether any of those who died in 2025 had contacted Talian Harapan. The figures provide no basis for blaming the service.
The Ministry of Health should explain how crisis support connects with treatment, who follows up and how it checks that people receive the care they need.
Coordination is familiar language in official statements. For a worried family, its meaning is simpler: somebody knows the next step and helps them take it.
In August, I wrote in this column, “Brunei’s Human Asset at Risk?”, about how unemployment, mental distress, bullying and other pressures could overlap in the lives of the same young people.
Government departments encounter different parts of that experience. The young person lives through all of it, alongside family obligations, financial worries and uncertainty about the future.
Those pressures alone cannot establish why an individual died. They do help explain why care cannot rest entirely within the walls of a clinic or hospital ward.
My earlier “Burnout Nation” column approached the concern through working life. Employers, too, influence whether people have the time, security and confidence to seek help.
Wawasan Brunei 2035 depends upon people being able to build a future. Their wellbeing belongs within that ambition, although nobody should have to prove their economic worth to deserve care.
Guidance already given
His Majesty Sultan Haji Hassanal Bolkiah Mu’izzaddin Waddaulah ibni Al-Marhum Sultan Haji Omar ‘Ali Saifuddien Sa’adul Khairi Waddien, Sultan and Yang Di-Pertuan of Brunei Darussalam, addressed mental health at Majlis Ilmu 2024.
His Majesty called for continued cooperation between health and religious authorities, and urged families and society to support those recovering. His Majesty also raised the effectiveness of community mental-health training.
Two years on, the authorities should account for how that guidance has been carried forward.
A Ministry of Religious Affairs report described a 12-week course for imams, ustaz and daie, organised with the Ministry of Health and completed in October 2024.
Approximately 20 participants attended. The training brought Islamic perspectives and medical knowledge together, giving trusted religious figures a stronger grounding in mental health and available support.
The course ended. What followed?
The health and religious authorities should explain how participants have applied their training, how many more have been trained since and how its effectiveness is being assessed.
Reported suicide deaths rose from five in 2024 to nine in 2025. That increase does not establish that the training failed. It makes those answers more urgent.
An imam need not become a psychiatrist. His trusted position can help someone speak about distress, overcome embarrassment and find appropriate professional care without feeling that faith has been set aside.
The same practical understanding matters within families. Someone may notice withdrawal or despair yet hesitate, uncertain whether to speak, fearful of offending, or worried about gossip.
Families need clear advice on whom to approach and how to obtain help. Concern is easier to act upon when the next step is understood.
An amanah beyond awareness
A whole-of-nation response involves many institutions. Shared responsibility still needs a clear answer to a basic question: who follows the person when responsibility passes between services?
Without that clarity, even well-intentioned efforts risk leaving families to make the connections themselves. Privacy must remain protected throughout; seeking help should never mean surrendering dignity.
The Ministry of Health should publish an annual account of suicide-prevention work. Several years of figures would give the public a clearer picture of what is happening.
That account should show how quickly urgent cases are assessed, whether referrals lead to treatment and what has improved. No family’s identity needs to be exposed.
Call totals and course attendance show activity. How long people wait, whether they receive treatment and whether support continues tell us more about the care delivered.
The mainstream media has a responsibility beyond carrying official statements. Reporting the annual figures should begin a conversation about prevention and care that continues through the year.
Access to treatment, the experience of seeking help and the results of prevention programmes are public-interest stories worth pursuing, long after World Mental Health Day has passed.
Private accounts cannot establish the cause of a death, and no family should surrender its privacy for a newsroom to examine public policy.
Responsible reporting can protect the bereaved while asking difficult questions of those entrusted with care.
Amanah means a trust. In this work, it rests with institutions charged with providing care and with those of us who may be the first to notice someone struggling.
My thoughts return to that grieving family. Their loss needs no public explanation to deserve sympathy, and their privacy deserves the same care as their grief.
For others who are struggling, recovery remains possible. A timely conversation, appropriate treatment and continuing support can help people find their way through a difficult period.
The next person who reaches out needs more than a number to call. They need care that follows through, and authorities able to show that it does.
Need someone to talk to? If you or someone you know is struggling, call Talian Harapan 145, or speak to a qualified healthcare professional or a trusted person who can help you reach care. If there is immediate danger, call 991 for an ambulance or go to the nearest emergency department.
Sources
– Ministry of Health World Mental Health Day message, reported by Pelita Brunei, 10 October 2026.
– His Majesty’s titah, Majlis Ilmu 2024, Prime Minister’s Office.
– Ministry of Religious Affairs report on basic mental-health training, 18 December 2024.
– “Brunei’s Human Asset at Risk?”, KopiTalk with MHO, 23 August 2026.
– “Burnout Nation: Why Brunei’s Work-Life Balance Promise Can’t Wait?”, KopiTalk with MHO, 2 April 2025.



